Thursday, November 18, 2021
What seems like an obstacle, or a downside, is only a test. It’s a test to see if you really want what you desire. That’s by design. The contrasting side of desire comes in all forms, but once you “pass,” all of the cons turn into pros. They become life lessons, strength-building exercises, skill-building experiences, and wisdom. But some of them will also be too overwhelming, and you just have to give up – and that’s OK. Sometimes you have to experience what you don’t want before you know what you do want. The key is not to fear or to dread the contrasting side, it’s all normal.
Only you can know if working through the contrasting side of a desire is worth your time and energy. Only you can know if each day is a step closer, or a step further away. Don’t continue with something that you no longer desire – that’s misery. If you picture the end result, and it makes your desire grow stronger, then you’re on the right track. Keep working through, but keep your thumb on the inner pulse of your desire. Follow the embers, and check in with yourself, daily, to see if they’re continuing to glow. Connect to how brightly (or dimly) your desire shines. That’s the secret – to see if you enjoy the challenge, or if you take pleasure in the work to get there. But remember that contrast is normal – there’s a downside to everything. When it’s time to quit, pay attention to the inner foreman and call it a day. If your good to press on, put on your work gloves, smile, and stop complaining. After all, it’s your desire, so don’t dread everything that comes with it – even an obstacle or two. It’s just a test to see if you really want it – pass it with flying colors, or walk away. It’s your choice. Dreading, complaining, or stressing never gets you a good grade. Try something else.