Saturday, April 18, 2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To be bossy, one must learn how to torture. Make it tough, but not so tough that the victim gives up and walks away. Torture plays to the victim\u2019s perceived need. They\u2019re already fragile – don\u2019t break them down too much. Keep them in the sweet spot of \u201cneeding.\u201d Tease them with what they want, but make them pay as high a price as you can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eventually, however, the victim breaks down. The bossy don\u2019t want that, so they always look for new victims. Bossiness is control addiction, but that control always<\/em> slips.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bossy people act like \u201cThe Boss.\u201d But a true boss, as in the phrase, \u201clike a boss,\u201d is one who trusts. You see, a true boss is nothing but an innocent, naked child who prioritizes play and generosity, not urgency or demand. He doesn\u2019t try to control. He leads by example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Everything will be stripped from \u201cthe bossy.\u201d The proud fall. I certainly did. Over the years of being \u201cThe Boss,\u201d as in a bossy control freak, I grew weary of how hard it was “keeping people.” I wanted to advance in life, but I never understood I needed to drop the \u201cboss act\u201d and find the humble truth buried within. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am The Boss, but I can\u2019t boss people around. A Real Boss isn\u2019t a \u201cTop Dog\u201d that we often envision. It\u2019s realizing the inner child within you. True nature is tender and soft and always up for a good time. He dribbles and laughs, not knowing the future either. He plays and enjoys like a boss. He doesn\u2019t play the bossy-type.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Being promoted is a prioritization of love and play, tenderness and joy. Love advances the needle, easily knocking down those who act <\/em>bossy. Real promotion floats endlessly. The bossy bulldoze and fall, hard. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Who\u2019s the Real Boss<\/em>? Those who act bossy or those who trust, play, love, enjoy, and give frivolously?<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Saturday, April 18, 2026 To be bossy, one must learn how to torture. Make it tough, but not so tough that the victim gives up and walks away. Torture plays to the victim\u2019s perceived need. They\u2019re already fragile – don\u2019t break them down too much. Keep them in the sweet spot of \u201cneeding.\u201d Tease them […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5583","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-morning-motivation"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5583","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5583"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5583\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5584,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5583\/revisions\/5584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymorningmotivator.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}